Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Christmas Eve 2008

Hi folks, it is the time of the year which holds a special time for our family. We celebrate the birth of Jesus 2000 years ago. The time of the year when the Christmas tree is up, presents to be given and received, christmas greetings and cards from friends all over the world, and the time to be thankful for all the blessings that God has showered on us.

I am taking a break from teaching till January next year. It's nice to have this stretch of holidays, especially the weekends with the family. We are not going away, involved in church services for Christmas and New Year.

Please read our family blog which we updated: http://shiewsletter.blogspot.com - we update this blog once a year so that friends can have a brief peek on what we have been up to as a family.

The kids are pretty excited about tomorrow. Christmas Day is just a very special day - no matter how old you are! Even as I am writing, my two older kids ( 16 and 13) are sitting down chatting by the christmas tree, trying to guess their presents! Adam is going to be one excited boy tomorrow as he will be getting the present he always wanted but mum and dad said no because it's too expensive.

Here's wishing all of you a blessed Christmas and a meaningful year ahead.

Much love.....

Thursday, December 04, 2008

December....

Hiya folks.....I survived VBS and had a blast. It was so tiring....but so much laughter, joy, moments that touched my heart....it was WORTH it. Check out the blog http://fbcvbs08.blogspot.com ( look out for the crazy looking lady with gigantic glasses and bright blue dress!) Now the followup work begins. At the last count, a total of 50 plus children accepted Christ ;-) The committee is seriously working on how to continue to keep track of these kids and encourage them to grow deeper in their relationship with God.

Adam had a good time. Made some new friends. Love singing the songs and doing the movements. Love his teachers, especially teacher Elizabeth who is SUPER cool.

I am now having withdrawal syndrome! Next VBS we are going to the land of the Kangaroos.....We hope next year we can have more kids attending. This year we had 385 kids attending, which is GREAT. The whole church was filled with chattering, excited, jumping, running, singing, laughing, smiling kids....how can one not be filled with joy just watching them?

Anyway, I promised that after VBS, I will start preparing for Christmas. So far have started a pathetic attempt to wrap some gifts.......But at least the Christmas tree and deco are up....makes the house looks festive and the heart ready for the special time of the year.

Adieus for now.....off to wrap some more presents!

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Sigh......

My five year old son and I were sitting down watching TV today. It was his last day of school yesterday so today we are having a lazy day....

He asked me.....mummy, what's in your tummy?

Ah...I thought....not too late for a science lesson. I went into a detailed explanation of all the organs in that part of the body....the stomach, the intestines, the womb etc....

He listened to me, respectfully and quietly, and then said....

No wonder your tummy looks so BIG!

Hah.....thank you very much. Jeez!

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Haha......;-(

My 5 year old asked me today, " Mum, if daddy die...will you marry again?"

I was caught offguard....we were having lunch together at Old Town White Coffee restaurant and I was kind of preoccupied with my lunch.

Took the easy way out. "I don't know", I said.

Wise young one said...."It's not fair you know.....you are already so old, how can another man marry you?"

WELLLL.....thanks a lot my son. You certainly made my day!

Saturday, November 08, 2008

Silence

Sorry folks, have been pretty busy lately with many things : new music classes, bible study and vacation bible school ( check out this blog http://fbcvbs08.blogspot.com)

Vacation bible school is happening in two weeks time at our church. This year I am in the planning committee and we have currently about 400 kids registered to come over one week, two sessions a day. I am also in the midst of planning for the family day concert...which involves me dressing up and acting as a Hawaiian queen. Haha....it's going to be lots of fun and I bet pretty tiring too.

In December, if all goes according to plan, I will be helping the youth organized a drama workshop for their annual youth camp. Have in mind to do something like " Whose line is it anyway?" At the moment, no time to dwell into this yet until VBS is over at the end of the month.

Music classes are going great. Opening up a new class this Saturday. A new challenge but am looking forward to this opportunity to bring music awareness of these kids to a higher level, and developing further their love in music.

Adam is also saying goodbye to his old kindy in November. He will be starting Year 1 in a new school, Tenby International School in Setia Alam, joining Alex who is already there, doing his Year 9. Praying that he will settle well in the new school, with longer school hours. Mummy has to get use to waking up earlier too!

So you see....that is why the silence.....hehe...just no time to sit down!

Monday, September 22, 2008

Prayer

My husband and I often pray together with our kids, especially young 5 year old Adam. Before sleeping at night, Adam will always request for us to pray with him. Sometimes he prays and we listen, sometimes we pray and he listens.

Just now, I was walking into my bedroom, I heard someone talking in my bathroom. I recognized it was Adam's voice and he was praying as he pees!

Dear Jesus, please protect me as I know you are very powerful, more powerful than knights and soldiers. Please take care of me......

My heart stopped beating for a second. It is one thing to pray together but it is touching when you hear your 5 year old son praying on his own accord. He reached out to God on his own, and to me, it shows that he has a personal faith of his own....he doesn't believe just because mum and dad say so, he believes from his heart.

He certainly wont be half dead and half alive in heaven ;-)

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Half dead half alive!

Adam has a penchant of asking his friends whether they are Christians. He is very concerned whether his friends will eventually go to heaven and be with him forever and ever.

He was been asking a certain friend that he plays with quite often in the park....are you a christian? The poor boy said no the first time. But our friend here keep on asking him....why are you not a christian?

Well today. the friend decided he wanted to cover all grounds. He told Adam....Adam, I believe in all Gods OK?

Adam looked at him straight in the eye and said....then you will be half dead and half alive when you go to heaven!

Because you only half believe in Jesus.......

Vo-ca-bu-la-ry!

Hi, my 5 year old son ( 5 going 20!) loves to ask us meaning of words he doesn't understand. Mum....what does alert means? Mum...what does alarm means?

I got a pleasant surprise last night. He was playing with his toys and he asked me how to manipulate a certain device on the toy. I told him...you figure it out yourself. He turned to me and said....but mum, you are so INTELLIGENT!

Hah....he didn't say clever but used the word Intelligent....Mmm....pretty good eh for a 5 year old?

This afternoon, he wanted to tie a rubber band on a chopstick and then tie it on his wrist. I was too lazy to figure out how to do it (!!!!) and he sighed....OK then, I will ask Che Che...since she is more CREATIVE!

Wah.....I am quite impressed lor....tee hee!

Friday, September 05, 2008

I'm back.....

It's nice to be back teaching again......I have missed it....it feels different this time around, definitely less pressure and more liberating.....

Taking it slowly...

But, it's GOOD to be back!

Wednesday, September 03, 2008

O level results

Some of you knew that Amanda ( my 16 year old) was taking her O levels exams and a few of you prayed for her.

Well, her results came out about a week ago....she got 7As ( A* for Maths) and 2Bs!

We are mighty proud of her....we thank God for her good results, and we are just so glad that all her hard work paid off.

I was so happy....could have gone hug all her teachers who have helped her along the way.

Special thanks to Ms Angeline who stood by her since she started school.....she is the kind of teacher every kid needs in their school life...committed, hard working, caring, responsible, and always look out for the best in the child....

Don't change the husband!

Hi folks....Just realised I haven't posted any message for more than two weeks! Dearie me....where did the time go?

Anyway, my 5 year old said something so sweet and wise today.

Mummy....you must not change husband OK? Even if the new boy friend is more handsome that your husband, and he tells you "I love you" many times....

I didn't even get a chance to say anything before he continued...

Or I will cry and cry...I will cry at home, I will cry at school, I will cry at music class, I will cry all the time.....

Sigh....if only some adults in this world is as wise as him....

Friday, August 15, 2008

The Telephone

I found a new definition for the word 'telephone'.....through my my 5 year old son.

He told me one day...mum, WX( a classmate of his) is my telephone.

What do you mean?

When D ( his crush) and I have a fight, WX is our telephone. Because D and I won't talk to one another but still we want to tell each other some things, we will tell WX.

I will tell WX...tell D to say sorry to me.

D will tell WX...tell Adam he has to say sorry first!

KIDS! I know they fight and have cold wars at the time, but this is the first time I hear the role of the 'telephone'.

Thursday, August 07, 2008

The Cross

Adam, my 5 year old, have been having a tough time lately. Very anxious about the safety of himself and his loved ones. It all started with a nightmare that involved Totally Spies girls! He woke up one night two weeks ago, crying about something...he cant even tell us. The next day, he told us a confusing story of Totally Spies and me and him and daddy.

Anyway, since that night, he is always asking us...whether will bad guys come and get him, what will they do, is the house alarm on...and he will get us to pray with him many times a day against bad guys and bad dreams.

I have been comforting him by telling him that Jesus is always there to protect him.

Last night, I got a brain wave. I asked him whether he would like to wear a cross, just to remind him that Jesus is always with him. He agreed and I managed to find one in my jewelry box...a small one just nice for him to wear.

He wore it to school today, proud and eager to show his friends and teachers. After school, I asked him whether he shared about why he is wearing the cross to his friends.

He said...Yeah...I told them that if the bad guys come, I will use the sharp ends of the cross to poke them in the eye!

Aiyoyo!

Babies and more babies!

I am very honoured to be part of a beautiful and meaningful event in a dear friend's life. Last Tuesday, the 29th of July....I was in the labour room with her. Her husband was overseas, the baby came earlier than expected and I told her that I will be with her if she went into labour...and SHE DID!! Baby Yee Lynn was born on Tuesday at noon time...the sweetest and most beautiful baby I have seen for a long time. She is so tiny, so fragile, and so complete...I cried when the baby was scooped to her mummy's arms.

Sms my husband the good news and he replied....Congrats! You are a new dad!

Seriously, this baby will always hold a special place in my heart. I have already fallen in love with her. She is just so adorable....

AND, this tuesday...the 5th of August, I became a GODMA! Yeah! To baby Lucas, first born of Cheryl and Dylan. I have yet to visit them because they live far away but I have seen his photo. Can't wait to hold him in my arms.....

I AM SO BLESSED!

Friday, July 04, 2008

Dating....

My 5 year old went to his one of his best friend's house to play today. After he came home, he told me....

Mummy...D and I played dating today.

Huh? ( mum's eyebrows shot up high on her forehead)....what did you do when you play dating?

Oh...we went shopping, eating, but....we didn't go to sleep together ( he meant literally sleeping lah!) You cannot sleep together when you go dating because you don't have big big love. You only have small small love.

He continued....only husband and wife can sleep together on the same bed. Like you and daddy.....because you have big love for daddy.

Wow....he got it all figured out my little one!

Thursday, June 26, 2008

The Pink Flower

I was reading a book, lying next to my 5 year old. It's our chill out time. He brings all his soft toys on my king sized bed. We read a book together. Then I read my book and he plays quietly with toys, enacting quiet fights among them (!)

Anyway, he suddenly looked over at me and asked, Are you reading a love book for your husband?

I looked at the cover of my book. Its title is: Sacred Influence - How God uses Wives to Shape the Souls of Their Husbands.

I was intrigued. How did he know it is a 'love book for you husband?'

So I asked him.

He said, the cover of the book is pink so it is about love. The picture on the book is a big flower so it means mummy giving a flower to daddy because she loves him.

Voila! So Simple....duh....

Never under estimate the power of observation of a child.

By the way, it is a very good book, author is Gary Thomas. He also wrote Sacred Marriage and Sacred Parenting. I am much inspired.....

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Everybody wave and sing Goodbye!

Hi folks, the title is the goodbye song of the Imagine That Kindermusik class. I sang it for the last time two Saturdays ago. I stopped teaching.....hopefully for just a while while I take a breather. It wasn't a easy decision to take after teaching so long. I have grown to love the kids very much. I have grown to love teaching them. Personally it has been a great learning experience of knowing the musical aspect of myself.

It has free up my weekends. I went on a short break to Ipoh and Penang over the weekend and stuff myself silly with food. It gives me more time with my family on saturday mornings and hubby is happy he doesn't have to be mum, dad, driver and lunch provider on saturdays anymore.

I want to thank the parents who have been so supportive of me all this while. There are some who started with me from day one and with me right to the last class. Started with Milk and Cookies (Our Time) and finish Young Child 3 with me. I told a friend that I will probably bawl my eyes out when it's time for me to bid goodbye and I did. Thank God I didn't scare the kids!

Anyway, this is not the end of the journey. Just stopping at the R and R to take a short breather. Watch out for this space......tee hee

Sunday, June 15, 2008

Home in Heaven and House on Earth

I just have to write this down before I forget.

Adam ( my 5 year old) was lying in bed, ready for bed...and as usual, he starts asking questions about life.

Daddy....when you go to heaven, will I be a big man already?

Yes.

I want to go to heaven together with you.

We cant decide when we go to heaven. Only God can.

Will mummy be as old as Por Por ( my mum) before she goes to heaven?

Probably.

What about kor kor and che che? Will they go to heaven too?

Yes they will.

How do I feel when I die? ( goodness knows what goes through the mind of this child!)

You will feel happy because God said heaven is a happy place.

( Dad is getting all the answers right so far!)

Dad....if you go to heaven first.....

CAN I HAVE THE HOUSE? And your bed too because my bunk bed wont fit me and my wife!

Can you beat that?!!!?!

Friday, June 13, 2008

Prince and Princess

On the way to school this morning, my 5 year old asked me....mummy, are we royal family?

Mum, weaving through mad traffic, with hair plastered on head ( no time to blow dry hair)....looking far from a queen...said, No darling....we are most certainly NOT royal family.

5 year old said, Then....I am not a prince?

Mum....nope, you are not a prince darling.

How can I be a prince then?

Mmmm.....you have to marry a princess.

Is Denise ( the girl he most sayang in school..and feelings are mutual by the way) a princess?

No, she is not a real princess ( mum put on her most sympathetic voice while trying to avoid rude drivers on the road)

Then I have to find a real princess when I grow up, said he.

OK darling....you do that.

AND, I will find one that is NOT married.

Yes darling...preferably!

Saturday, May 31, 2008

Can you hear me?

Adam, my youngest, is a people person. He thinks a lot about relationships, people, feelings...

A few nights ago he asked me, Mum....when you die and go to heaven, can you still talk to me?

Before I can even think of an answer, my wise son said, I think you can still talk to me. And I will still be able to hear you.....in my heart.

I was touched...and speechless. His answer is better than mine.

You can always hear my voice, darling....in your heart. Wherever you are, wherever I am.....

Friday, May 16, 2008

Boys' Mail

Adam wanted to phone his dad, to ask dad to come home early so that they can go to the park to play football.

I dialed the number for him from my handphone and passed the phone to Adam.

He put it to his ear and after a few seconds, gave me a puzzled look and said...daddy says leave my number?

I realised that the call must have gone to voice mail and I told Adam....oh.... that's voice mail.

Before I had a chance to explain what that means....smarty pants asked....do you have girls mail mummy?

HUH?!!??

Then I realised he heard BOYS MAIL....not voice mail! So since daddy is a boy and he has boys mail....mummy must have girls' mail!

Hee..heee.....so cute!

Tuesday, May 06, 2008

A time for change.....

Hi folks, Amanda is currently sitting for her 'O' levels exams. She will be finished mid June. After that, we have to make the decision where she will go, and what she will do. The options are mind boggling - "A" levels, matriculation, SATs.....we have been getting good advice from friends who have gone through the same experience. So, the mind is working and working, thinking and thinking, considering this and that.....

The heart....is not doing so good. It's feeling kinda heavy - knowing that a change in the family is going to happen, it's inevitable. Thinking of my baby no. 1( I know....I'm hopeless when it comes to my kids) leaving home makes me panic. I know millions of mums in the world have gone through the same thing. I hope I will be strong and calm when the time comes.....not a bawling mess which I can very well be if left to the promptings of my heart.

Changes....you can't stop it, just like you cant stop the sun from setting. I was watching Star Wars with my 5 year old. Anakin's mum said that to him when he left home to be trained as a Jedi. Letting go....sigh...it's TOUGH!

I know the brothers will miss the sister. They looked to her for leadership ( though they will never admit it) I will miss singing with her, talking and joking together.

I know she has not yet leave the house....it's just mummy preparing for the next phase of motherhood and writing about it helps....so bear with me OK?

Saturday, May 03, 2008

Imagine This....

Hey everyone.....am very aware that I have been missing in action AGAIN for a while now! Time just flies by....

Had a good class today. The kids really enjoyed themselves when Ernie the puppet did some glissando exercise with them - they had to play the glock glissando fashion up or down and Ernie had to follow the sounds by going up and down. It didnt take long for some of the kids to decide to make him go crazily up and down by playing really fast!

Didn't the kids do well recognizing which notation represents which sound on the whistle? Am really glad that they are absorbing and learning in class.

Five more lessons to go before I bid adieus.....

Monday, April 21, 2008

Flaming Peanuts

Hi, this is a PROUD mummy moment for me. Go read my daughter's blog. Click on link on the right side. It's called http://flamingpeanuts.blogspot.com ( don't ask me why flaming peanuts!, my son is called backwalnut...go figure)

Read the article " we are too hard on them" - must read OK?

Guess Man Hon and I didnt go too far wrong with this child of ours.

Love you Manda.....

Sunday, April 20, 2008

LOU-SY

We were on the way back from dinner (yummy steamboat and baskin robbins ice cream for dessert). In the car, birthday boy was sitting at the back of the MPV, while son no 2 Alex was talking nonsense ( literally, speaking in jibberish). Birthday boy was trying to tell us something but his voice was drowned out by his brother.

In exasperation, he was trying to raise his voice louder than the brother's and to tell kor kor not to be so loud and noisy. In his excitement, he said....

Kor Kor, don't be so LOU-SY! ( beginning of 'loud' and ending of 'noisy')

So cute...and so true too! Kor kor was being lousy causing such ruckus in the car!

Adam's football party ( part 2)

It was exhausting time for the kids and chief coach ( my hubby!). We had about 15 five years old running and dribbling one ball. I was shaking legs watching the whole time from the sidelines...with pizza and water at my disposal...hehe, I like this kind of party.

Hubby turned out to be an excellent coach. Just to show that when he puts his mind to it, he can actually think of creative things to do with the kids, apart from the usual watch TV or play computer games ( ouch...sorry darling!)

The birthday boy had a GREAT time. He says it is the best birthday ever ( well, he has only 5 birthdays so far and I don't think you can count the first two coz he won't remember anything of them anyway). Wants to do the same thing next year.

Received some great presents....

Another party tonight...this time with my side of the family.

And another one on Wednesday at school....

Adam is one happy boy this week. He deserves it coz he is just so sweet and adorable and cute.

I love you infinity Adam.....

Saturday, April 19, 2008

Adam's football party

Adam turns 5 on April 21st. We are celebrating his birthday today...and the birthday boy requested for a football party. So, in an hour's time, we are heading to the futsal court nearby. He has invited boys and girls from school and church - altogether about 15 kids.

When he first voiced his request for a football party, I was a bit apprehensive. Don't know whether the girls are keen on it. I didnt say anything to Adam. I thought it is his birthday so he has the right to want to have the kind of party he enjoys.

Anyway, to my surprise, after we decided about football party, a few days later...he suddenly said, mummy, please bring some barbie dolls along for the party. The girls won't want to play football so they can play with the dolls!

* Smile*

I told him....don't worry la....girls can also play football ma....

A few days ago, one of the girls invited to the party decided football is not her thing and she told her mum she doesnt want to come. Mum told me and I said its perfectly OK.

I told Adam that his gal friend is not coming... and he said....SEE, I TOLD YOU! I TOLD YOU TO BRING BARBIE DOLLS!

Girls nowadays are really so into princess and dolls etc. I seriously don't remember to be so extremely incline when I was this age. And boys....no pink shirt or shorts.

It's funny....

Africa...

I was teaching about African American music in music class today. I showed the kids pictures of people, clothes, instruments from Africa.

One child asked, why are the people so dark?

Before I can answer, another child piped in.....because they don't have umbrellas in Africa!

Kids....

Imagine That

Hi folks, I overheard a mum in class today talking to another mum. She complained that she observed that her son is not as enthusiastic as his classmates when it comes to doing activities in class.

Mums and dads, each kid has their own learning style. Some are visual learners ( they may like to observe first), some are hands on ( they absorb best when they are manipulating something with their hands), some are auditory ( they are good at listening to instructions). Kids are different; just like you and me. We adults do sometimes have the tendency to compare our kids and it's not really fair to the kids.

I have one or two kids in class who prefers to observe and that is absolutely fine. I appreciate that they are more comfortable observing while they learn. It doesn't mean they are NOT learning.

;-)

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Bed time.....

Bedtime is my favourite time of the day! It's the time when Adam is calm, not distracted with TV or toys ( except his soft toys on the bed)....and the time when he speaks his mind. The saga of the stepmother continues.....

Mum, if you die....and daddy get a new wife...I will get a stepmother right?

Correct ( at least he understands what stepmother means)

Mum, if you AND daddy dies....will I get a stepmother and stepfather?

Hmmm...( scratch my head...how to answer?)

You will have Che che ( Amanda) and Kor Kor ( Alex) to take care of you.

I guess you can guess what's coming.

Mum, if you AND daddy AND Che che AND kor kor all die at the same time....who is going to take care of me? Kakak also die at same time...( stick out his tongue and rolled his eyes upwards for visual effects!)

Ee ee ( my sis) and Kaufu ( my brother) will take care of you.

But how do they know you die? You can't talk anymore.

Gosh...this is getting way too complicated!

The police will tell them ( will they? I don't know....)

How do the police know their handphone number?

Oh, you can give the police my handphone and the police can find Ee ee and Kaufu's numbers in my address book.

Tada.......end of questions.

Good nite.....

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

My Sweet 16 Birthday!

Was thinking of my sweet 16 birthday. I had a joint birthday party with a girl friend ( who is now a doctor in Penang) in my house with BOYS and girls - a dancing party! We both wore the same dress ( haha....) but different colour...and had flower pins on our hair. I told Amanda about my attire and she looked at me...speechless ( hehe....)

Still remember the dress...white in colour with pink flowers and of course pink flowers on the pin too ( must match right?)

I agonized over what I should wear for days, went window shopping ( I was living in small town Taiping so selection ain't that great), agonized over who we should invite, what food we should serve....looking back now, my mum is a saint to put up with me ( she still is now....)

I sms mum just now and reminded her of my sweet 16. She promptly said her granddaughter Amanda is much more matured than me at that age. Not FAIR ( stomp my feet!) Should I be angry or happy?

Amanda had a few friends over, made a humongous bowl of jello and yoghurt....and went out for a pizza dinner. Two of her friends slept over....they composed a song for her, gave her a CD...and a few small gifts...and she said, this is her best birthday celebration ever!

Well, my sweet 16 was pretty good too....memorable....( hey, that is why till this day I can remember what I wore)

Stepmother

Last night, when Adam was rolling about in bed - supposed to be asleep by then but having one of those talkative moments - asked me...mum, what is a step mother? I was a bit surprised to hear him say that word because I made a conscious effort not to read fairy tales to him ( because not realistic and can be frightening at times too)

He told me there is a step mother in Cinderella...( must have heard it in school)

Told him step mother is a new mummy if daddy marries again...

What happened to the old mummy. he asked? Die ah?

Maybe, I said....or don't want to stay with daddy anymore ( I was thinking....jeez, this is why I didnt want to read fairy tales to him)

Then came the question.....are you my step mother?

Daddy said...no, mummy is not your step mother, she is you real mummy ( what ever that means)

Adam: Are step mothers bad?

Daddy: No, not all....some bad, some are good.

Adam: Is grandma a step mother?

Mummy: Please go to sleep now!

Adam: OK, goodnite mummy.... I love you infinity!

Happy Birthday!

Today, 15th of April, is the birthday of Amanda (my no. 1 baby) - who turns sweet 16. Can't believe how time flies. It really seems like yesterday she came out from my tummy after 35 hours in labour ( Yes.....) She was born in the UK and in those days, c-section was not even given as an option though she wasnt engaged until I was almost 7 cms dialated! Anyway, she made it up by being the cutest. most angelic baby. It was a real joy to take care of her. She's a model baby....no problems eating, sleeping, played on her own. Ahh....I had it easy ( until the two younger boys came along!)

She turns 16 years old....no more model baby....but a model teenager?!? Got such thing or not? Hehe! She's a good girl, obedient at most times, stubborn though ( her dad's genes) and does a lot of things last minute ( like school projects - which gives mum numerous heart attacks) She sings and plays the guitar beautifully. Check it out : www.youtube.com/amandashiew

She will be taking her "O" levels in two weeks time. Then she will be starting life as a college student...and learning to drive....another big milestone in her life and ours.

Happy Birthday Amanda! Love you.....

Thursday, April 10, 2008

Here I am ( again!)

Hi folks, I promised in my last message that I try not to go missing for so long so here I am again. I am keeping to my word ;-)

Just wanted to share a conversation I had with Adam ( my 5 year old boy) last night. He was lying in bed, after bed time story and lights are dimmed, playing with his huge array of soft toys on his bed. This is his routine every night. He gets his favourite soft toys ( always the same ten toys every night) and they will be having conversations and 'battles' with each other for about half hour before the 'director' falls asleep.

Anyway, he was playing with his red teddy bear when he suddenly asked me. I was in the room, reading by the bedside. Mum...how did Jesus made me? Did he stuff things into my body like this teddy bear?

CUTE.

Dad, who happened to be in the room, took over the conversation said, no...remember the egg and seed story we told you? ( we explained how babies are made about a year ago).....that's how you are made....when mum's egg met with dad's seed. Maybe he was being silly...or just to exasperate us...he said....mum's egg? Did she eat the egg boiled or fried?

FUNNY.

I told him...just close your eyes and go to bed please because mum has run out of answers.

NITE NITE!

Tuesday, April 08, 2008

Missing in Action (again)

Hiya all, so sorry I have taken such a long break again. I guess not having to blog the lesson plan weekly has turned me into a lazy worm! Time really flies an we are now almost halfway through the SWIS semester.

Classes have been going really well and I am constantly amazed how well behaved and adorable the kids are in class. I am sure mums and dads have different stories at home ;-) but they truly are good in class. I often catch myself in the midst of teaching, seeing their heads bend over in concentration and trying to follow a rhythm, and I tell myself - I love this job! I am having just as much fun as them!

On the personal front, Adam ( my 5 years old going on 12) told me, mummy....I love you infinity. I just explained to him what 'infinity' means. Makes your heart melt eh? This statement totally made up for what he said the other day. I took out an old pair of pants from the cupboard, put it on and asked dear hubby the classic question.....Do I look fat in this? The little one, who was in the room quickly chirped in....You don't look fat mummy, but your bottom looks really BIG! Gee.....thanks! :-) My hubby, of course, thought HIS son is a genius...and started laughing like a hyena!

Well folks....sorry again from the bottom of my heart for being so out of touch. Will try to be more consistent. Bye bye for now.....

Friday, March 07, 2008

Out of Action!

Hi all, sorry I have been out of action for a few weeks an have not been blogging regularly. No excuse, just plain laziness and allowing other things to crowd out my blogging time.

The SWIS classes have been going well. The kids are starting to get the hang of the idea of 'going to the park' and the things we can do there. We have lots of fun and laughter in class when they have to correct this 'blur' ( wink, wink!) teacher who doesnt know which part of the slide to climb up, and which side of the see saw she must be on! Kids love to have their 'teaching' moments too - especially as they are always told what to do, how to do it - it's good for their self esteem to have the opportunity to help and tell others how to do things.

They are also beginning to form friendships in class, especially the girls. So sweet, every opportunity they get, they will be holding hands and helping each other with instruments. I'm glad to see emerging friendships here because it is a sign that they feel secure emotionally and have the confidence to reach out to others.

Hope that the kids are not driving you crazy with the slide whistle at home! We will continue with the use of slide whistle on and off throughout this term so do bring it along in class.

This term will be a challenging one musically. I have been thinking of how to make the lessons more challenging for the kids, and you will see as we go along this semester. I look forward to seeing the kids rise up to the occasion and really grasp the musical concepts.

So, till we meet again in cyberspace.....ah, make sure you go out and vote this saturday. I will, after my classes!

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

SEE WHAT I SAW - February 2008

Hi folks! I have been out of action for while, so sorry. I have been busy with loads of things, with holidays and some personal crisis in the family.

We start the new theme of See What I Saw (SWIS) this week. For those of you who regularly check my blog, you would have realised that I have blog the lesson plans for this theme the last time round I did it. So, I will not be repeat myself by writing whole lesson plans again. Please do refer to the past lesson plans under SWIS.

But, what I will do is to keep you updated now and then on the progress of the class and if I do get new ideas on any activity, I will surely keep you informed. We teachers do get better with experience ;-)

SWIS is all about things we do in the park - on the playground equipment, picnic, things we find, games we play, treasure hunt, animals in the park etc. It is a theme that the kids can strongly relate to. The slide whistle will be lots of fun for them to play and we'll be using it at different times in during the semester. Blowing enhances the voice - speaking and singing voice - in many ways. I will share more during the semester.

Alright then, I will see you all in class this week. Bye bye!

Saturday, February 02, 2008

Gong Xi Fa Cai!

Hi folks, here's wishing you a joyful and safe Chinese New Year and happy holidays. If you are travelling, be safe on the road. I will see you all week after in the new place. Take care.....

Wednesday, January 23, 2008

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

The day in the life of a mum!

My son Adam has lately got into this habit of sticking out his tongue at people whom he feels has done him any wrongs. Most of the time the victims are his dad, mum, older sister and older brother. He doesn't do an outright sticking out tongue act but it is done in a very sly way - just a bit of tongue sticking out at the corner of his mouth - his way of rebelling. He knows he gets into big trouble with us for doing that and he has stood in many a corners just for that act of rebellion.

Anyway, he did it again to me yesterday. Can't remember what the matter of contention was but I saw it...a tiny pink tongue sticking out!

I asked him, are you sticking out your tongue at me? ( stupid question by the way, haven't I learn after three kids?)

Guess what he said, and said in a indignant way mind you....I am NOT sticking out my tongue at you, I am WETTING MY LIPS!

Don't think he got away with that answer but in hindsight, I must say he came up with a pretty reasonable excuse in a very short time!

Cities! Lesson 14, 15 and 16

Hi all, I won't be writing a detailed lesson plan from now till the end of semester which is three lessons away. This is because we will be reviewing and reinforcing old activities, the ones that I feel the kids may not have fully grasped.

All in all, it has been a very good semester and all the kids have done really well. The new kids in class have adjusted very well. The older ones are steady and some ready to move on to the next level.

Thank you again for all your support.

As you know, we are moving to our new location so Feb 1st will be the first day in the new place. Don't forget!

See you all in class!

Proud Mummy Moment!

Today is the 2nd day home with a sick child. Thank God he seems to be on the mend. Temperature is no longer 39 - 40 degrees, which was worrying. Spoke to the doctor this morning and she said, if the temperature doesn't go down by today ( he has had high fever since Friday evening), then he has to be hospitalized! Praying that the temperature stays down today. So far it has been OK.

Anyway, the proud mummy moment. We were watching Tarzan on TV. Well, he was watching, I was reading the Kite Runner ( the second time!) Adam was telling me that Tarzan was caught in a net by some bad guys.

I thought, aha....a teaching moment. I asked him, how do you know they are bad guys? You know what he said....I know they are bad guys because they did something bad to Tarzan. Then he said, you won't know a bad guy by looking at their faces, because the bad things are hidden in their hearts! ( that's my proud mummy moment)

Being a boy and the topic of bad guys and good guys are often raised in our house, I'm glad that he finally understood what I have been trying to teach him all this while. Appearance of a person doesn't show who you really are, its the intentions of the heart.

So, I'm happy today ;-)

Monday, January 21, 2008

Are you for real?

My son Adam who is turning 5 in April this year is down with a very bad throat infection, coupled with high fever. Naturally, he has to take medicine to control the fever. Being sick and cranky, he is not the most cooperative patient at the moment. The mere mention of medicine will cause him to collapsed in a pool of tears and whinyness ( I know, no such word but you know what I mean!)

Anyway, last Saturday at 3am, he was burning up so I woke him up to give him paracetemol. He started wailing and protesting. Then he asked me a very strange question. Can I scratched your chin?

Huh? Scratched my chin? Well OK....if that makes you happy.

So he reached out and gave my chin a tickle and then said....OK, you are for real! You are not a mean person in disguise!

Then only it occurred to me what he was doing. He thought I was wearing a mask and was checking by scratching my chin to see whether there is indeed a mask!

Either I looked so frightening in the middle of the night or I was being so 'mean' to him that caused a overactive imaginative burning up boy to think that the lady lying next to him in his bedroom is a mean witch pretending to be his mummy!

Tuesday, January 15, 2008

Cities! Lesson 13

Hi all, hope you had a good week. We are already at Lesson 13. As I mentioned in class, I will be contacting some of you soon to discuss about your child's graduation to the next level. The last few lessons of this semester, I will be doing mostly review activities. This is a way to reinforce the musical concepts, and at the same time provide me the opportunity to observe how your child has progress this term.

Lesson 13, I will be concentrating of Rhythm. We will go through the songs that have of different rhythm pattern and playing steady beat with with bilateral and alternate movements using the resonator bars.

The songs we will be using are I got a letter this morning, Sorida, Down Our Street ( book), Walk to the Cobbler Shop, Hippity Hop to the Barber Shop, Down to the Baker's Shop and Sing your way Home.


You know, initially I thought this semester's lessons will be a difficult for the children to grasp, the concept of city life, and jobs....I was a bit concerned the younger ones will have difficulty understanding. But, we overcame the hurdle! I can see all the kids participating and understanding and most importantly, learning and having fun. So again, I am mighty proud of your children!

Thank you mums and dads for being so supportive. I truly appreciate it.

I see you all in class. Ciao....






Wednesday, January 09, 2008

Cities! Lesson 12

Hi folks, hope you had a good week. My kids went back to school this week, all three of them so it's peace and quiet in the house....alas! well, at least in the morning before Adam finishes kindy at noon. Most of you would have read the newsletter, about the music school moving to a new location. Most people naturally don't like changes but there are some changes that are for good and I believe this change of location is a good one. It is a more conducive and cosy environment. I know some parents will miss the convenience of shopping in the mall but look at it this way....we are helping you save money! :-) Seriously, when you come and have a look at the new place, I think you will give it a thumbs up!

I hope you have been reading the lesson plans that I faithfully prepare and write down each week. Actually looking at my site meter, there are people all over the world reading this blog and I know some of the Kindermusik sites have also linked this blog to theirs. It's really nice to know that people who are like minded are benefitting from this.

The kids had great fun writing and mailing their real letters last week. Hope that the letters have arrived in your post box this week and the kids get a thrill receiving their own letters. Do let me know!

Back to the lesson plan this week. It's already Lesson 12! I know I keep on saying this but time really do zoom pass so quickly.

We will introduce a new book today, Down Our Street. In this book, the kids will be introduced to people who lives in the city and the different jobs they have. The focus of this activity is musical ( as they learn the rhythmic phrases) and dramatic ( with hand movements) enactment as we go through the book. I quote:

Musical and dramatic enactment of a story is one way to expand children's creative experiences by bringing together elements of guided imagery, music and movement, and the visual arts. Creative enactment is an important process for developing self-awareness and self-expression. Through it you and your children can expand the imagination, develop skills in body movement, gesture, and practice verbal and nonverbal communication.

- The Creative Arts: A Process Approach for Teachers and Children, 2nd Ed, by Linda Carol Edwards


We are going visiting to three different shops this week; the cobbler, the baker and the barber. As we stop at each shop, we will be learning about what they do and learning the rhythm of the rap, the roll and the snip! Each of these song: Walk to the Cobbler's Shop, Down to the Baker's Shop, and Hippity Hop to the Barber Shop - are new to the kids so we will be taking our time to sing and understand what we are singing.

Last week I introduced the concept of accelerando ( going faster) to the kids as we Pass the Shoe to each other as we sit in a circle. We will repeat this activity again this week to reinforce the concept.

For parent sharing time, we will be dancing to a American fiddler tune called All Around the Town. Let me share with you about this song:

All Around the Town is an American fiddler tune. American square dance tunes, as played by fiddlers who have learned them by ear, have a distinctive type of rhythm. They differ from the jigs, reels and hornpipes of other countries. Most of the American tunes have a definite ending and repeat. The same class of dance tunes in other countries, especially Scotland and Ireland, play round and round ad libitum, or to the end of the dance.

- Traditional Music Of America by Ira W.Ford


Righty ho....I'll see you in class. Bye....





Tuesday, January 01, 2008

Cities! Lesson 11

Hello, hello, hello.....today is the 1st day of the year 2008. May this new year bring good health and much joy to all of you. Hope you all had a good holiday over Christmas and New Year. We as a family had a good time eating, catching up with old friends ( from all over the world!), and more eating coz the Christmas and New Year parties continue till this weekend! My kids don't start school till next Monday so we are all still in zombie mode in the Shiew household.

But full speed ahead for our music lessons. All classes are resumed and hope attendance of students will picked up too.

We have been practicing playing our resonator bars with one hands, alternate hands and both hands ( bilateral). This week we are going to review again the progress of each child as we sing and play our hello song while we play the bars with both hands in a steady beat. A bilateral movement is simultaneous movement of corresponding body parts, such as two hands or two feet.

We introduced the song Roll that Ball last week. This week, after becoming acquainted to the rhythm of the song, we will use our bodies and then later drums to move and to tap to the first beat of the verse. Learning all the different rhythms of the different songs from Cities these past few weeks develop awareness of the children to the varied rhythm patterns in songs. We will continue to do this right up to the last lesson.

The new song this week is I got a letter this Morning. Musically, this song is sung in a minor key which is not too common in children's music so it's good to expose them and also to encourage them to sing. We will also be learning about the postman and what he does in context with occupation of people in the city. It's going to be fun as the kids will get to mail their own 'letters'!

We will continue learning about jobs people do when we introduce Mr Cobbler to the kids, and learn the rhythm of how he raps his hammer when he mends shoes for little feet! And talking about mending shoe, we are going to have a Pass the Shoe singing game while we learn the concept of accelerando ( becoming faster)

Lastly, we will be taking a walk, run, tiptoe and maybe even flying around the city ( Here we come a walking) as we spot what other jobs that people do in the city. Children inherently love to move about and we use this to our advantage as we instruments to represent 'walking', 'running' and 'flying'. So we are using our eyes, our ears and our bodies ( integrated learning) when we participate in this activity.

Parent sharing time: I have put off this activity Mirror Dancing till later in the semester as I am concern it might be too difficult for the kids. This activity, as the title suggests, involves mirroring. The kids ( with your help) are going to be my mirror image. This activity encourages the kids to imitate and be aware of their bodies, and also to exhibit self control as we move in response to the music. Let's give this activity a go this week and fingers crossed!

See you all in class....

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